Endless

What i see everyday in my house is a lot of argument . The argument suppose not exist. But someone created it, and i have no idea what is the purpose of doing that. When an argument involve two person it will increase to three then four at last all of them argue. It is just like NUCLEAR FISSION. An electron is shoot to one neutron it will divided to two then four and so on.. Why a family have to be that way everday?  Every single day facing the same problem and it get worse. What can i do to solve this problem ? I cant do annything. Is all depend on god and the determination of the person that started to stop all the conflict and chaos that the person created....